It has now been two full months since Chris has died... funny how you work so hard to get someone out of your life (or as much as you can when you still have kids together) and now I have to do everything I can to keep his memory alive... I find it only appropriate that I'm now dealing with an enormous financial problem that has become more complicated because of his death... oh the joys of the banking system... with all hope I should have this mess resolved by the end of business tomorrow and well before the deadline I have been given... thanks Chris... you're still a pain...